Don't blame yourself for using one when he was a baby. Some babies need the comfort of sucking on a pacifier.
When it was time, in my opinion, to take away my daughter's pacifier I just gradually started throwing them away. If I found one laying around I would put it out of site. I found that my daughter tended to use them more because she saw it than because she wanted it.
Eventually we were down to one and I picked a time when I had a few days off so if I lost some sleep over it I could handle it easier. Bed time was tough for a day or two and then she was weaned.
I just weaned my son cold turkey. I was going through his clothes and commenting that some were too small and he was getting so big and grown up. Then I gathered up the pacifiers and said you are even too big for these now and that was it.
To my surprise I didn't have a problem, he just accepted it.
Don't make the mistake I did, I waited too long to wean my daughter and then we had another baby. We really struggled with getting rid of the pacifier then because she would see her baby sister had one.
I should have made sure she was weaned before the baby was born.
Good thoughts,I am expecting again and I never even thought about that.
Posted by: DellaBella
A neighbor came over the other day and was shocked that I still gave my son a sippy cup. She said at his age he should always be using a regular glass.
I suppose we use them because of spills mainly. Some are not even actually sippy cups they are just cups with lids and straws built in. Is this really a big problem? I mean he can use a glass and does at the table all the time, my wife and I just prefer the lidded version for while he is playing.
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Posted by: Benji
I want to make sure we wean our daughter off the pacifier well before it can cause any damage to her teeth. I don't mind her using a pacifier I know eventually she would give it up on her own, but if it will cause dental problems I may want to start weaning her from it sooner than she would do it on her own.
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Posted by: Jessica
I gradually started weaning my daughter off the bottle and it was fairly easy but she does not want to give up her night time bottle.
I want to just pick a date and say no more but I know it will be a battle and neither one of us will get any sleep.
What can I do to make it easier on both of us?
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Posted by: Josh76
My daughter is only two and I don't see the problem with her taking her blanket with her everywhere we go. I think eventually the need to have "blankee" with us will lessen.
My mother-in-law on the other hand thinks we should "lose" it somehow.
What do other parents think?
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Brr39 Said,
My son carries his "binky" with him everywhere, he had to have a pacifier for naps and bedtime as well.
I am just imagining the battle when we say no more and the pacifiers have to go. I am not sure why we ever started using one in the first place.