I am nervous about going back to work and leaving my daughter at a daycare center. I want to make sure I choose a good one. Any experienced parents got any tips for me?
Ask everyone you know what daycare they use, that they recommend, and which ones they think you should stay away from.
Pop in for a visit to observe sometime. See what it is like.
Before you actually have to go to work test out your best choices. Take your child for a few hours to each one and then compare to find the best.
I will recommend you stay at home if you can, and enjoy them while they are young, before you know it they will be bringing your grandchildren over to visit. That’s when you can put your energy into work, at that time your kids will be off doing their own thing, and you’ll need something to occupy your time. If you are unable to afford to stay at home, I hope you can find a family member to care for you child. My daughters share babysitting for each other, one works days, the other works nights, and my wife fills in a couple hours gap between the shifts for their commuting time. The grandchildren were in daycares for a couple of months or so, and it was terrible, the kids were getting sick and they didn’t like being there. I’m glad it’s all working out for our family and I wish you and your daughter the best, regardless of the choice you make.
I think that you should go to your friends and ask around, then maybe you could take a day off and check it out yourself. Like the others said kind of. GOOD LUCK!!!!!
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One of the biggest problems working parents may very well face is the guilt of being away from their children for 8+ hours per day. At times, maybe even feeling as if they are not the ones raising their own child, but that that job is being done by a childcare provider. Finding a happy medium is not an easy task to say in the least. However, there are some ways to try and ease some of the guilt and make up for the "lost time" away.
Helpful tips that you should consider when hiring a babysitter for your children.